Mistress Charlie – Domme

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MISS CHARLIE CLAYTON   Miss Charlie Clayton

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Ramblings from a submissive male:

Reblogged .

Definitely, a must read for anybody looking to deep-dive into the chastity mindset/lifestyle! so why not read this then contact Mistress Haylee and find out much much more of what Chastity is all about.

Assessments of Chastity

Pcguy For Mistress Haylee has started a new group on Fetlife that I have joined.  I’m not very active on Fet and always looking for reasons to be.  As I did more experimentation with chastity devices in 2017 than ever before, I wanted to revisit the topic.  I will just let my thoughts swirl and try to cover as many aspects of this topic as I can, both in general and what it means to me.  I will warn beforehand that it will probably jump around and feel disorganized.

First off, I will say that when people are into chastity, I term them chastity enthusiasts.  With most topics in the world of BDSM, fetishist is usually the word of choice, but in the case of chastity that seems like an oxymoron.  Having a fetish for not being able to get hard or orgasm doesn’t seem to fit the bill.  Hence, chastity enthusiast seems far more fitting.

Secondly, the idea of keeping a man in chastity is one topic that a lot of female subs get turned on by.  They might be super submissive and have extensive kinks all on the submissive side of things, but have a conversation about chastity and you might be surprised at just how many submissive women enjoy the idea of having their man locked up with his erections and orgasms under her control.  It is rather interesting.

I should probably say this.  Ideally, no submissive male should NEED chastity to control themselves.  A sub that can’t keep from masturbating or follow rules regarding their orgasm control probably struggles to get or keep a dominant.  By and large, this makes chastity a choice rather than a necessity.

From the standpoint of a dominant woman, chastity can be a polarizing topic.  A middle ground still exists that is indifferent to the idea of male chastity, but when it gets talked about it is often because a Domme fully embraces the idea of keeping their man locked up, or they absolutely despise the idea of keeping their man locked up.

The anti-chastity route is often one in favor of keeping the male’s penis ready and available for immediate use.  The Domme enjoys PIV sex, and locking a man up and denying him access to her vagina reduces her pleasure.  This is often accompanied by the idea that a man should be fully capable of controlling himself and doesn’t need a piece of metal, plastic, or silicone between his legs to do that.

The pro-chastity route varies a whole lot in how extensive chastity devices should be used.  There are some general consensuses though, such as, a man locked in chastity while his partner has the key will become more focused upon the needs of his partner since release is earned by focusing externally rather than selfishly.  I tend to agree with these sentiments.

As for the intensity of and how extensive chastity is used, on the mild end you will find people who use it as a temporary punishment or for short periods of time, often having a build up period where the sub becomes increasingly frustrated and desperate with the outcome being an explosive and highly pleasurable orgasm.

On the extreme end you will find subs who are locked permanently in chastity and/or the use of spiked devices that cause rather excessive pain when an erection is attempted.  This may be common in situations where a sub has been reduced to slave status and their sexual pleasure is no longer deemed of any importance.  Another common situation is when the sub is a cuckold and keeping him chaste and without pleasure is a symbol of his sexual inferiority.  Spiked devices are even more intense and train a sub to control their arousal, although my gut tells me that used extensively, this may lead to impotence if the body gets traumatized enough.

Between the extremes is where most chastity practitioners fall and you will find infinite flavors within the lifestyle.  In these cases, the sub’s default state is locked in chastity.  However, it is not permanent and they will be released with some frequency for cleaning, shaving, and the occasional orgasm.  Sometimes the release is regular and scheduled.  Other times the release must be earned.  Other times the release is done at random, often involving some form of game of chance.  Or it could just be “whenever she feels like it.”

You will find women that love to tease their subs when they are locked up, knowing that the attempted erection will frustrate them and make them more desperate.  You will find women who put no focus on the man’s arousal and frown upon any attention he gives to his penis.  You will find women who treat chastity as keeping him locked up and ready for use.  You will find women who treat chastity as the place to keep things that will go unused.  Any reason you can think of is probably practiced by someone.

Why do women like this?  I believe in its most basic form, having actual physical control over a man’s genitalia is rather empowering.  If I had to make a guess, the rest would build from there.  What fun is power and control if you can’t abuse it a little?  I can understand someone enjoying using release as a carrot on a stick, leading the sub where they want to.  I can understand enjoying seeing their whims toy with a man’s hopes and desires.  I don’t think someone has to be a sadist to enjoy these things… but it doesn’t hurt.

For those who are wondering about prolonged orgasm denial, it is healthier to purge the prostate regularly.  There are various techniques used to drain the prostate (frequently without orgasm) and these techniques are known as milking.  This allows the prostate and stored toxins to be purged, and if done without an orgasm, this will not decrease the amount of built up sexual frustration or cause a sub to drop out of submissive mental space.  Ruined orgasms are another method used, but milking is generally considered more thorough.

Chastity for me is a complicated subject.  I have never spent more than 72 consecutive hours locked up because I have never found a device that fit comfortably and safely to do so.  I have learned the hard way that powering through the pain leads to complications.  Opening a sore that takes 24 days to heal benefits no one.

Mentally, chastity works into my ideal D/s scenario.  Being immersed in submissive mental space is the equilibrium I seek.  If having an orgasm will prevent me from feeling the way that I want to, I am okay with sacrificing that.  Don’t get me wrong, I enjoy orgasms, but when thinking logically about it, it doesn’t always feel “worth it.”  I know that wearing a chastity device actually increases my sex drive and helps to trigger (or deepen) my submissive mental space.

However, the aspect of it that affects me the most relates to my emotional masochism.  The reasons behind it are my space fuel.  I enjoy being triggered by being mindfucked into feeling like if I desire sexual pleasure or rewards that I am being selfish and unworthy as a sub.  I enjoy being triggered by her taking away my erections and orgasms because she knows that I like them.  I enjoy being triggered by being humiliated and told if I was bigger that she wouldn’t lock me up.  I enjoy being triggered by not knowing when, how, or why I will be released next.  I enjoy being triggered by how unfair the disparity is between the sexual pleasure that each of us experiences.

All of these notions absolutely crush my ego and that process of being crushed makes me spiral so deliciously into subspace.  That is what chastity does for me.

 

Mistress Haylee – Domme

What is Financial Domination?

 

In the world of BDSM there are a number of fetishes that relate to all manner of specific things. Some men like to be told that they have tiny penises, others want to dress up in women’s clothes

Financial Domination, or FinDom as it is known, is a fetish where the submissive finds it sexually pleasing to have some, or all, of his hard earned money spent by a figure that he believes to be superior to him.
Make certain that there are no illusions of what a slave is getting from me and what they can expect. It is then up to each individual to make their own informed opinion.
There are stops in place where I can step in and let them know that I believe they are going too far.

If you have read this far then why not find out more about the Buzz you will get having a Mistress control your life and join My stable you can email me and remain anonymous on haylee_bristol@mail.com

Now many of you know that some of us Mistresses Share sites, I am one of those and I share a Big World site with other Mistresses you will find us at : http://www.olafetish.com and yes you will find the same services on there, so you can even join My stable t and now to a subject that I am often asked about Consensual Contracts, Yes you read that right and it used to be applied regular and yes it still goes on mostly behind closed doors or curtains and I still get lots of requests to provide the same service and contracts like I used to and half the excitement is the filling and sending of the contract and I plan to provide the service and CBF documents just like I used to So if you think you would be interested in finding out more then just email me and ask for a Stable application form.

Mistress Haylee

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                       Got a feeling 2018 is going to be a Stable Year.

Now what make me think that your saying, well since my last post then quite a few of you have wrote to me asking for a membership form and that just shows how easy it is to join Mistress Haylee`s Stable and just look at this one he even got the right name for him/her so that saves me giving a name.

 

Mistress Haylee, could you please send me an application form to join your stable.

I feel that I will bring something more colourful to your stable in that I am a cross dresser. I really love wearing women’s silk underwear. I have enclosed a pic of me wearing such.

My fetish started off with wearing my sisters under wear and then I couldn’t stop. I now have several draws full, many of which I have purchased but some I fancied when I saw them on other peoples clothes lines (I liked them so I just took them to add to my now extensive collection.

You must admit mistress that I look really sexy in them.

Once I receive you application form to join your stable Mistress I’ll complete it and return it immediately.

I have always wanted to serve a real Mistress and I am absolutely certain you will make my dream come true.

subworthy

Mistress Karina – Domme

        Consensual Financial Submissive

MERRY CHRISTMAS FROM THE POSTMISTRESS  KARINA

 

sissies should visit @Olafetish for #consensual #exposure http://olafetish.com #humiliation #findom it does this2u

Mistress Karina`s Cavern members Form    Click on this for the form   Karina members form

 

I hereby acknowledge that this information is freely and voluntarily given. I am under no coercion to give the below information and do so because I wish to serve Mistress Karina

Your Name

Your Email

Your Address

Home Phone Number

Work Address

Work Phone Number

Partners/Parent’s Name

Partners/Parent’s Phone Number

Details of parents and siblings in the box below (include names, email addresses and phone numbers)

 

Write a letter to your parent or partner or Parents stating your nastiest fantasy and sign your full name at the end. Comments of any other information you would like to add just for the thrill of it. Also a photo of yourself in a comprising manner must be attached.

 

 

Sign or Type your name here

 

I understand that by sending this document to Mistress Karina without any coercion that she can use any information and any photos that I supply in any way she wishes. I enter this agreement fully aware of my commitment to Mistress Karina and give her full permission to use any information I provide   NONE OF THIS IS REVENGE PORN  Send the Form back to  karinamilf4u@gmail.com
Any information and photos can be used by Mistress to enforce this agreement, I do this of my own free will.

Sign or Type your name again for this update  here.—- >

 

Old businessready for you

Go look at The Postmistress on www.olafetish.com

You need to please any Mistress

Contract or not on Consensual contract you need to please a Mistress in many ways.

Not just sexually just watch the Cougar in the video being pleased and after you watched it then make up your mind do you want to please a Cougar like Mistress Karina, does it excite you if the answer is yes and if you want to please Me Contract or no contract then contact me at karinamilf4u@gmail.com

Enjoy watching The Cougar being pleased then make up your mind   http://www.eroprofile.com/m/videos/view/YouPorn_-_what-a-good-little-wifey

Best to Copy and Paste the link in your own Browser if you like watching lots of videos

Karina.

Karina the Kougar

 

OK OK before you all go mailing me saying Karina you can`t spell for toffee let me explain

Now you all know that this site got a new owner who goes by the name Goddess Bird otherwise goes by the name Boss, well she is turning this site round and by god in needed it in my opinion and the site is basically the same but we all must have an animal theme so I jumped in right away said oh good I want to be a Cougar and I got told that because my name was Karina then the only way to spell Cougar is with a K so now I am Karina Kougar and all that enter my Den will be called Kubs

Now a little about me for those that don’t know I am a Milf hence my email address karinamilf4u@gmail.com

And I have always been a Cougar yes I love sex and men and dare I say it I love Kock, sorry Boss just had to get that in and all the Kubs who sign on with me and do assignments then what ever age you are or size then boy oh boy you are going to Kum but only when Mistress Kougar tells you is that clear ?

All you need to do to be considered to be a Kub and enter my Den is to email me and say

Please can I be a Kub and Kum in your Den Mistress Kougar and I will get right back to you.

The New Stable for Thoroughbreds ready to be Bred

                        The New Stable

I want people to instantly associate Mistress Haylee to the Thoroughbred of Stables I realize that you are all different and finely tuned and you need special treatment along with your oat`s

Yes I have big plans for The New Stable, I hope to bring in a stud stallion to help me service the many broody Mares and cock sucking sissy boy fagot’s who hang around the stable door, yes you know your interested so instead of just reading this and jacking off then why not contact Me its so easy to join Don’t be in with the front runners then get lost like SHERGAR you need to google that

then contact me Mistress Haylee  haylee_bristol@mail.com

and don`t forget that The New Stable will be mucking out on two sites and don`t forget to contact The Boss and check out all the other groups there is bound to be some thing to turn you on so the sooner you check out www.olafetish.com

the sooner you will see just what your missing.

I live for female supremacy, foot and body worship and humiliation and want you to entertain me with tasks and assignments that I set you.

And for those of you who are feeling very frisky and brave then Read On from here.

Consensual Blackmail is as dangerous as you desire, dont be fooled by consensual wording ! you play with fire..
Blackmail,That thing that you desperately crave, yet are too fucking chicken shit
to actually go through with. It’s just a fantasy ” for now” But is it possible that …the thought excites you and makes your cock pound and go harder than its ever been.

While the  submissive voluntarily pays money to keep shameful or incriminating evidence from seeing the light of day, the thrill is in skirting the edge, risking exposure, either by not being able to keep up with the agreed to payments, or choosing to not keep up in order to edge closer to being exposed.
By willingly sharing contact information for the most important people in his life, by willingly giving up incriminating evidence, usually of an erotic nature, and then committing to a financial arrangement with a dominant to keep his or Her “secret” safe, the submissive puts in the hands of the dominant the power to ruin him or her by revealing his secrets to those who think they know him if he/she does not hold up his/her side of the contract.
I live for female supremacy, foot and body worship and humiliation and want you to entertain me with tasks and assignments that I set you.
Mistress Haylee.

My email is haylee_bristol@mail.com  or contact on site

 

 

Why not join Haylee`s Stable its so easy.

Hi its Mistress Haylee  and I am now recruiting new members for my Stable.

Just wanted you to see some pics from a very loyal and trusting sub slave screwme-often he`s been in my Stable for some time now and he could not be happier and you can judge by his photos and letter just ask yourself would you wear a ball cracker for a Mistress and believe me he screws down those knobs until I say stop, now for those of you reading this and thinking of finding and serving a Mistress then its so easy to make the first move and apply to join my Stable.              All you need to do is write Haylee some where on your body and send it to haylee_bristol@mail.com  then I will get back to you, oh and by the way you are not forced to write it on your private parts any place on the body will do its just my way of proving you really do want to contact me and interested in my Stable.

Now here is one of screwme-often early emails with two pics.

Hello Mistress Haylee.
I am sat downstairs in front of the computer that we have linked up to the main TV. I have put the CBF in an email addressed to you and I have been reading through it. I instantly got a hard on and I so want you to have all this info.im sat in a pair of Jane`s  pants and I have taken a few photos as proof.
I have had cuckold thoughts and being forced to suck cock repulses me a bit but I do think about what it would be like. I’m pretty messed up with some of my thoughts I guess so I could prob do it if forced.
Thank you Mistress Haylee
Screwme-often

Now here is screwme-often latest pics and he is still enjoying being under contract and serving me and he knows that if he does not obey then his Balls will suffer and Jane will notice. I have ordered him to write a email to let people know joining My Stable was the best thing he ever done and if he dont hurry up and send it then there will be another two full turns on his Ball cracker,Not all subs ask for Consensual blackmail or CBF  for short so dont let the pics or words put you off contact me and my Stable and lets have some Fetish Fun.   Mistress Haylee.