Planning Application Re New Stable Approved.

Hi Guys and Ladies, its Mistress Haylee with some great news, I don`t know if you all know but Ola`s site olafetish.com was bought out lock stock and barrel by a Lady called Madame Chaya and some of us Mistresses have been on edge because the site was to be Re Modeled to bring it up to new standards with new idea`s and the site is now called Madame Chaya`s Domme Boudoir and can still be found at www.olafetish.com Well we was asked to re apply if we wanted to keep on the site, I don`t mind telling you I was very worried that I would have to knock down my New Stable post by post and put in planning application on another site.

But late yesterday I had confirmation that my application was successful and I can remain online for another year, Madam Chaya also told me that she hopes that all the Existing Dommes who are on the site will contact her, So Ladies there is no need to worry like I was I think its only a formality to just make it known to Madame that you would like to be a Domme on her site and from what I seen of the developments on site then I for one are going to make the most of the great opportunity to further my career and Top up my bank balance by servicing the needs of others and I intend to build an extension on the New Stable and therefor will be searching for New Clientele so Trot, Canter, Gallop along to the New Stable and prove you are Worthy.

Mistress Haylee.   haylee_bristol@mail.com

Ramblings from a submissive male:

Reblogged .

Definitely, a must read for anybody looking to deep-dive into the chastity mindset/lifestyle! so why not read this then contact Mistress Haylee and find out much much more of what Chastity is all about.

Assessments of Chastity

Pcguy For Mistress Haylee has started a new group on Fetlife that I have joined.  I’m not very active on Fet and always looking for reasons to be.  As I did more experimentation with chastity devices in 2017 than ever before, I wanted to revisit the topic.  I will just let my thoughts swirl and try to cover as many aspects of this topic as I can, both in general and what it means to me.  I will warn beforehand that it will probably jump around and feel disorganized.

First off, I will say that when people are into chastity, I term them chastity enthusiasts.  With most topics in the world of BDSM, fetishist is usually the word of choice, but in the case of chastity that seems like an oxymoron.  Having a fetish for not being able to get hard or orgasm doesn’t seem to fit the bill.  Hence, chastity enthusiast seems far more fitting.

Secondly, the idea of keeping a man in chastity is one topic that a lot of female subs get turned on by.  They might be super submissive and have extensive kinks all on the submissive side of things, but have a conversation about chastity and you might be surprised at just how many submissive women enjoy the idea of having their man locked up with his erections and orgasms under her control.  It is rather interesting.

I should probably say this.  Ideally, no submissive male should NEED chastity to control themselves.  A sub that can’t keep from masturbating or follow rules regarding their orgasm control probably struggles to get or keep a dominant.  By and large, this makes chastity a choice rather than a necessity.

From the standpoint of a dominant woman, chastity can be a polarizing topic.  A middle ground still exists that is indifferent to the idea of male chastity, but when it gets talked about it is often because a Domme fully embraces the idea of keeping their man locked up, or they absolutely despise the idea of keeping their man locked up.

The anti-chastity route is often one in favor of keeping the male’s penis ready and available for immediate use.  The Domme enjoys PIV sex, and locking a man up and denying him access to her vagina reduces her pleasure.  This is often accompanied by the idea that a man should be fully capable of controlling himself and doesn’t need a piece of metal, plastic, or silicone between his legs to do that.

The pro-chastity route varies a whole lot in how extensive chastity devices should be used.  There are some general consensuses though, such as, a man locked in chastity while his partner has the key will become more focused upon the needs of his partner since release is earned by focusing externally rather than selfishly.  I tend to agree with these sentiments.

As for the intensity of and how extensive chastity is used, on the mild end you will find people who use it as a temporary punishment or for short periods of time, often having a build up period where the sub becomes increasingly frustrated and desperate with the outcome being an explosive and highly pleasurable orgasm.

On the extreme end you will find subs who are locked permanently in chastity and/or the use of spiked devices that cause rather excessive pain when an erection is attempted.  This may be common in situations where a sub has been reduced to slave status and their sexual pleasure is no longer deemed of any importance.  Another common situation is when the sub is a cuckold and keeping him chaste and without pleasure is a symbol of his sexual inferiority.  Spiked devices are even more intense and train a sub to control their arousal, although my gut tells me that used extensively, this may lead to impotence if the body gets traumatized enough.

Between the extremes is where most chastity practitioners fall and you will find infinite flavors within the lifestyle.  In these cases, the sub’s default state is locked in chastity.  However, it is not permanent and they will be released with some frequency for cleaning, shaving, and the occasional orgasm.  Sometimes the release is regular and scheduled.  Other times the release must be earned.  Other times the release is done at random, often involving some form of game of chance.  Or it could just be “whenever she feels like it.”

You will find women that love to tease their subs when they are locked up, knowing that the attempted erection will frustrate them and make them more desperate.  You will find women who put no focus on the man’s arousal and frown upon any attention he gives to his penis.  You will find women who treat chastity as keeping him locked up and ready for use.  You will find women who treat chastity as the place to keep things that will go unused.  Any reason you can think of is probably practiced by someone.

Why do women like this?  I believe in its most basic form, having actual physical control over a man’s genitalia is rather empowering.  If I had to make a guess, the rest would build from there.  What fun is power and control if you can’t abuse it a little?  I can understand someone enjoying using release as a carrot on a stick, leading the sub where they want to.  I can understand enjoying seeing their whims toy with a man’s hopes and desires.  I don’t think someone has to be a sadist to enjoy these things… but it doesn’t hurt.

For those who are wondering about prolonged orgasm denial, it is healthier to purge the prostate regularly.  There are various techniques used to drain the prostate (frequently without orgasm) and these techniques are known as milking.  This allows the prostate and stored toxins to be purged, and if done without an orgasm, this will not decrease the amount of built up sexual frustration or cause a sub to drop out of submissive mental space.  Ruined orgasms are another method used, but milking is generally considered more thorough.

Chastity for me is a complicated subject.  I have never spent more than 72 consecutive hours locked up because I have never found a device that fit comfortably and safely to do so.  I have learned the hard way that powering through the pain leads to complications.  Opening a sore that takes 24 days to heal benefits no one.

Mentally, chastity works into my ideal D/s scenario.  Being immersed in submissive mental space is the equilibrium I seek.  If having an orgasm will prevent me from feeling the way that I want to, I am okay with sacrificing that.  Don’t get me wrong, I enjoy orgasms, but when thinking logically about it, it doesn’t always feel “worth it.”  I know that wearing a chastity device actually increases my sex drive and helps to trigger (or deepen) my submissive mental space.

However, the aspect of it that affects me the most relates to my emotional masochism.  The reasons behind it are my space fuel.  I enjoy being triggered by being mindfucked into feeling like if I desire sexual pleasure or rewards that I am being selfish and unworthy as a sub.  I enjoy being triggered by her taking away my erections and orgasms because she knows that I like them.  I enjoy being triggered by being humiliated and told if I was bigger that she wouldn’t lock me up.  I enjoy being triggered by not knowing when, how, or why I will be released next.  I enjoy being triggered by how unfair the disparity is between the sexual pleasure that each of us experiences.

All of these notions absolutely crush my ego and that process of being crushed makes me spiral so deliciously into subspace.  That is what chastity does for me.

 

Mistress Haylee – Domme

What is Financial Domination?

 

In the world of BDSM there are a number of fetishes that relate to all manner of specific things. Some men like to be told that they have tiny penises, others want to dress up in women’s clothes

Financial Domination, or FinDom as it is known, is a fetish where the submissive finds it sexually pleasing to have some, or all, of his hard earned money spent by a figure that he believes to be superior to him.
Make certain that there are no illusions of what a slave is getting from me and what they can expect. It is then up to each individual to make their own informed opinion.
There are stops in place where I can step in and let them know that I believe they are going too far.

If you have read this far then why not find out more about the Buzz you will get having a Mistress control your life and join My stable you can email me and remain anonymous on haylee_bristol@mail.com

Now many of you know that some of us Mistresses Share sites, I am one of those and I share a Big World site with other Mistresses you will find us at : http://www.olafetish.com and yes you will find the same services on there, so you can even join My stable t and now to a subject that I am often asked about Consensual Contracts, Yes you read that right and it used to be applied regular and yes it still goes on mostly behind closed doors or curtains and I still get lots of requests to provide the same service and contracts like I used to and half the excitement is the filling and sending of the contract and I plan to provide the service and CBF documents just like I used to So if you think you would be interested in finding out more then just email me and ask for a Stable application form.

Mistress Haylee

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                       Got a feeling 2018 is going to be a Stable Year.

Now what make me think that your saying, well since my last post then quite a few of you have wrote to me asking for a membership form and that just shows how easy it is to join Mistress Haylee`s Stable and just look at this one he even got the right name for him/her so that saves me giving a name.

 

Mistress Haylee, could you please send me an application form to join your stable.

I feel that I will bring something more colourful to your stable in that I am a cross dresser. I really love wearing women’s silk underwear. I have enclosed a pic of me wearing such.

My fetish started off with wearing my sisters under wear and then I couldn’t stop. I now have several draws full, many of which I have purchased but some I fancied when I saw them on other peoples clothes lines (I liked them so I just took them to add to my now extensive collection.

You must admit mistress that I look really sexy in them.

Once I receive you application form to join your stable Mistress I’ll complete it and return it immediately.

I have always wanted to serve a real Mistress and I am absolutely certain you will make my dream come true.

subworthy

The Great and Powerful Goddess Gatita

Guess who can finally post!  The Admins and myself had one hell of a time trying to get this working.  Now, I can finally give a proper introduction of myself!

Greeting to the little piggies and various pets, I am the amazing, great and powerful Goddess Gatita.  A Latina Goddess reborn into this life as a mermaid princess from outter space, here to grace one and all with my beauty and mind while taking your tributes and offerings for the simple fact that I simply exist.  If you are reading this, it’s fairly obvious that I can take care of that hard earned money much better then any little Oinkling.

Tributes and Offerings are expected and mandatory if you wish to have any form of communication and or relationship with the Goddess Gatita, No excuses, No exceptions.  I accept multiple forms of payment through various apps and sites such as paypal, circle pay and Venmo.  Gift cards from Hot Topic, Kill Star, DollsKill, Sephora and Ulta as well Amazon are also highly encouraged and accepted and can be directed to the same email listed as all other payments.

I am a Vegan Goddess that will tell you what I want.  Time wasters will get what they give; Nothing.  The more you give, the more the Goddess will smile upon you.

Amazon wishlist can also be found here.

Until later, Oinklings.

-Goddess Gatita

Puppy play

Puppies! It’s almost Christmas and you wanna know what would make this year extra special for both of us? If we locked your shrimp tail away in chastity and I wore the keys around my neck for at least until New Year’s Day 😈 Puppies belong in cages when they don’t deserve to be petted 🐶

My email: Selenaslife@outlook.com

All enquiries welcome 🔐 Your secrets are safe with me.

Yours never, Selena the schoolgirl brat and puppy master

A puppy isn’t just for Christmas 🎄

Puppies! Christmas time is fast approaching as we all know! Want to be a good boy this year? Here are the things I’ll be buying with your tribute money 😘 Remeber, if you like a specific item and you pay for it, you get sneak previews of me wearing it 😇

Deep dark fantasies about being owned by a girl much more beautiful than you could get in real life? And so young she’s still in school? Then contact me and become my pet 🐶

Want to be entertained with locks and chains this Christmas? Drop me an email as school is out for the holidays so I have extra time for good pups 💕

Selenaslife@outlook.com

 

Services offered on website olafetish.com


Just a few of the services offered to anyone who joins The Nest and if any interest you then why not make contact Now.

Consensual Blackmail… be prepared to answer a list of questions and pay tribute

Sissy training…  be prepared assignments will be given, completed homework will need to be done and tribute will have to be paid up front

Impact play

Cock and ball torture

Ball Busting

Small Penis Humiliation

Toe and foot play

Pics

Video

Corporal punishment

Wallet Raping

Sugar Daddy/ sugar baby arrangements

Nurse Medical Play

Role play… teacher student; nurse patient,

Strap on and pegging play

Bondage sessions

Financial Domination

Web caming

Sexting

Cuckolding

Contact me directly a

Birdsnest4u@gmail.com

If there is any other Fetish that your seeking then please Ask Goddess Bird/ The Boss

 

Hello again, Puppies

Hello puppies! It’s been a while, and I’m sure you’ve missed me! As you know I study as well as work which means I sometimes get caught up in my school work! You’re never too far from my mind though 😉

I’m always reachable by email (even if I do not reply immediately) so feel free to contact me here:

selenaslife@outlook.com

to tell me your deepest fantasies and secrets and how much you wish to serve me 🐶

Reminder to all potential puppies, since I am a student I prefer tributes if you want my attention, time is money after all 👑

i thought I’d be sweet and give you a quick little peep into what you’re missing without me 💸

 

The Black Widow now spins her Web on her website olafetish.com

Black Widow

 Have you ever heard the word  Latrodectus don’t suppose you have well that’s my name in Latin, Black Widow and I have been invited to join olafetish.com and spin my Web on my own section on my own web site and once my Web is spun and lots of sub slaves are hanging in there then there will be no escape not that you will ever want to from such a beauty like me, for I am the original Black Widow a few have tried to copy me but without sexcess, I will always be the original Black Widow

 even though of my reputation The animals most at risk from the black widow‘s bite are insects—and male black widow spiders. Females sometimes kill and eat their counterparts but you’re not lucky enough to mate with The Black Widow.

So now my Web will soon be spun and I will be enticing to you insects, you animals to enter my Web of Sin and anyone is invited to apply to me but a tribute will make you stand out, payment options are on my picture and for all those that think this very attractive Findom, you need to hit the key board and apply for instructions to enter the web of sin and beware for once you have been given access then there is NO ESCAPE.

Send in your application showing your interest to join the web. Your application must consist of Name, age, relationship status, income, hard limits and kinks (Tribute is desired)

BlackWidow  black_widow1377@hotmail.com